Conflict Coaching

Voluntary, private sessions designed to help students reflect upon alternative ways of perceiving and experiencing conflict, themselves, and others

What is Conflict Coaching?

A one-on-one conversation with a conflict coach to discuss your situation

Designed to help individuals gain confidence to effectively manage conflict

Focused on teaching skills and tools so that individuals are empowered

A guided process to help you identify your goals and explore potential solutions

Conflict Coaching Topics

Interpersonal Relationships

Communication issues, conflicting needs

Living Situation

Roommate conflict, issues with housing

Academic Success

Grade appeal consult, degree progress

Conduct Case

Conduct process, case expectations

Advisor Conflict

Graduate advisor conflict, mentorship issues

Classroom Conflict

Professor conflict, struggles with peers

Personal Improvement

Communication skills, strengths focus

Team/Organization

Organization dynamics, team communication

Other Topics

Other issues that present themselves

What to Expect

1

The Consult

Request a Conflict Resolution Consultation by visiting the Student Resolution Center’s website. Once your consultation request is reviewed, you will receive an invitation to schedule a 45-minute consultation to learn about conflict coaching and determine if it is the right fit for you.

2

The Intake

If you and the Conflict Resolution Services staff determine that coaching is the best next step, you will begin your coaching process by sharing about the conflict or your patterns of communication and behavior in conflict. Then you will discuss goals you have for your coaching sessions.

3

The Coaching

Throughout coaching, the coach will ask thought-provoking questions to help you determine what you want to achieve. They will assist you in thinking through options to reach your goals, build opportunities to practice new approaches, and provide feedback.

Is Conflict Coaching Right for Me?

A checklist to see if Conflict Coaching could benefit you

I will make a genuine effort to learn more effective ways to navigate conflict.

I am eager to increase my self-awareness.

I am open to examining my behaviors that may be impacting how I show up in conflict.

I am open to exploring the ways that I contribute to conflict.

I will complete the tasks decided on in coaching session.

I commit to being transparent and honest with my coach.

I am ready to invest time and energy to reach my goals.

I recognize that my coach’s role is to share observations and provide feedback.

I am open to feedback.